The Mexico adventure begins.
0:00 Intro
1:14 Ingredient 1: OVERLAND, NOT COACH
1:57 Ingredient 2: ONE MONTH
3:27 Ingredient 3: SPLURGE
4:27 Ingredient 4: OFF-SEASON
5:36 Ingredient 5: NATIONAL PARKS
6:47 Ingredient 6: BICYCLES
7:57 Ingredient 7: MODEST HOTEL/MOTEL
8:45 Ingredient 8: SEPARATE ROOMS
9:09 Ingredient 9: NICE HOTEL / AIRBNB
10:21 Ingredient 1O: SCARY BUT CHEAP
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If you're not, sign up Five dollars a month. Either way, thanks for the support and the link is in the description of course questions. Every couple years there's enough rain for this Creek to flow time to go to. Mexico We're really doing it this just like winging it.

We're kind of like winging it, but not winging it. If you must fly coach drive. When you fly coach, you begin your trip with misery at the airport and you end your trip with misery at the airport. and a business class and a first class ticket for a big enough family will pay for a very long Overland trip.

A car is a storage facility and a mini home on. Wheels You can pull over for fun and stupid stuff because you're on vacation one month. take at least one month for your vacation. Like everything else, it's much easier if you're single of course and this sounds like a rich guy thing.

But I Did a four month trip in 2014 2015. I was paying a Bronx Art Studio rent and I was paying a Manhattan apartment rent and including both rents. The entire four-month trip cost me thirty thousand dollars. Seventy five hundred dollars a month.

A lot of you are choosing careers, choose seasonal work. I've met gardeners and greenskeepers who take off six months every year to go surfing. teachers have two months off, or maybe you can work holidays and save up a month's vacation. If you have a month to get somewhere and back, you can drive two hours or so per day and go out of your way for Extraordinary places we drove two hours out of our way to go to White Sands National Park in New Mexico and it gave us really great enthusiastic energy for the long drive to Fort Davis Texas that day.

Thank you! Oh my goodness. Wow! Look at this. We got our own little section. Splurge by Splurge I Just mean live a little.

Don't count your pennies. Don't do everything on budget. try to have a attitude about cost. Again, this sounds like a rich guy thing, but I've seen what you Americans Drive I've seen your expensive cars and your expensive clothes and your expensive sneakers.

Drive an old Toyota and save your money for Extraordinary experiences. I Think the magic number is maybe 10 grand a month for a month's vacation, maybe a little more. It took me four years to save up for this trip. This was our first family vacation ever and um, I mean we spent a bit more than 10 grand, but not exceedingly more than 10 grand travel during the low season.
We left for this trip on January 3rd and returned on February 6th. Everybody had already traveled during the holiday break. We had everything practically to ourselves. We barely planned and made day-to-day reservations for places to stay.

There were plenty of vacancies, there was no crowds really, and hotels are cheaper on the off season. in Lazaro Cardenas Mexico we had a water park basically to ourselves all to ourselves on a Saturday on Saturday January 28th foreign The best week to visit Yellowstone which we didn't go to on this trip, but the best week to visit Yellowstone I have found is the first week in May Nobody's there and it's when all the little baby animals have been born and you get to see little tiny baby buffaloes. Which brings us to American National Parks Go see them! We went to one on the way to Mexico the best ones are out west California and Utah are the best bang for your buck. California and Utah Each state has a lot of national parks and the drives to each are pretty spectacular.

Can get an annual pass for a hundred and something bucks and it's good for whoever's in the car with you. You'll find like once you start going and getting in the habit of going to National Parks they just become a part of your vacation vocabulary and you'll just start going to more and more. And they really do. They do something to you and they make you really, really love America Some of them will move you to tears.

Yeah! I Feel like I'm riding like a four pound bite? Yeah, Push the button on your right and it should make you go really fast. Bicycles, Especially electric bicycles. You can rent bicycles just about anywhere or you can pack your own God forbid something happens to your car and you gotta get it fixed. If you have bicycles with you, you can still get around the town where your car is being fixed.

good. Rack You're going to be unloading and loading this thing a lot. Get the convenient good rack. The one I got is a cuat and it's for 120 pounds of bicycles.

I Had to cut the fenders off of our van moves because they wouldn't fit on the rack with fenders on them. so I cut the front of the fenders off of them. Built a little plywood rack for X's bike. Electric bikes in particular open up the adventures wider.

you can just cover so much ground and we found once you're on the bikes to let the kid lead or at least let him think he's leading. I Explained to my son this is not a dump nor is it a this is a modest Hotel technically a motel modest Hotel stay one night, maybe two in a modest Hotel They can be gross I'm not sure how many stars this hotel has, but it's definitely not five. In order to go to number two in the toilet, you have to pre-load using the garbage can go and you have to. According to the expert, you have to wipe your butt in the shower.
They can be a little gross, but there's something kind of fun about it. And modest hotels make you really appreciate nice hotels. Oh, it feels like this isn't it. missing a piece.

Missing the seat part hotel with two rooms. If you have kids, do everyone a favor especially the parents and get them their own room. Maybe one or two nights every week of your vacation. at least once during your vacation stay in a nice hotel or a Swank Airbnb I Ain't a rich guy, but I've done uh, rich guy things on other people's dimes.

The swankiest hotels I've ever stayed in are the the Park Hyatt Tokyo the one from Lost in Translation the Four Seasons Santa Barbara some place in San Maritz Switzerland and the hotel cost in Paris I Am not talking about those those hotels I'm not talking about thousand dollars plus per night hotels I'm talking about nice hotels under 500 bones Three hundred Five hundred dollars. When we settled in Mexico for two weeks, we rented an Incredible Airbnb in this little surf town and the cost was about the same as the hole in San Antonio But that's because the Incredible Airbnb was in Mexico and folks are a bit scared to visit Mexico which keeps the prices low. Let's brings us to our final ingredient and the final ingredient to having a non-miserable vacation. Go to a scary but cheap place.

So this is the dream. Driving on the beach. it's hard to articulate the exact effect that Mexico has on me and now on my family. I Can't really put my finger on what it is.

um I Usually just say It's Magic It feels magic. It's little things. We saw whales while we were getting ice cream one night. There we go.

You see him? Yep. I Just got it. There you go. All right, Do you see him? Bud Yeah, mob zombies right there.

I've never seen a crocodile in the wild. That thing is scary looking, but but there are actual no dangers that you absolutely must respect. It's sort of like riding a motorcycle though. Mexico is not remotely as dangerous as riding a motorcycle, but there are some certain fundamental um rules that you have to follow for yourself.

You never ride a motorcycle without a helmet and you never drive in Mexico at night. Um, avoid certain places. Don't mess around with drugs or anything illegal. Keep a low profile.

Etc This was my fifth Overland trip in Mexico I had never been the victim of a crime even when I was down there for four months I Don't remember ever hearing a firsthand account of someone being a victim of a crime only. Oh I know a guy and he told me blah blah blah and on this trip with my family I made a mistake careless Reckless and ignorant mistake Isabelle said the folks in San Miguel told her we should say in Pat's Quarro we drove into Pat's Cuero It was crowded, lots of traffic I didn't see a convenient place to park the truck I was hungry I was cranky so I said let's drive further get a couple hours south closer to the beach where we're eventually going to stay and we'll just stay at the halfway point in this town. called Nueva Italia De Ruiz and I thought we were supposed to say in Pat's Quarro because it was cute. but we were supposed to stay in Pat's Quarro because it was safe.
So I had a temper tantrum. Uh, drove us a couple hours south and we stayed in this dump in Nueva Italia de Ruiz The next morning we absolutely needed diesel. We were out of diesel I filled up the tank in Nueva Italia de Ruiz Got a couple miles outside of town. Two men pulled up next to us on the highway they were in a little.

Mazda I was in a Land Cruiser I could see into the driver's seat. in the passenger seat they had guns in their hands. They pulled us over to the side of the road, but they were not cops. Um I got us out of it by giving them money.

It was a pathetic amount of money. A pathetic, tiny amount of money. But the experience was traumatic. It was.

It was traumatic. It was terrifying. Um I'll tell the whole story in a subsequent episode that's coming up. but that's the gist of the story.

I Made a terrible mistake not saying it was my fault those guys. but I made a stupid mistake because I was being a baby and that was about the halfway point of the trip. So what do you do? do you drive to the nearest airport and fly the wife and kid home? Which? I Definitely, we as a family thought about those guys them. So we're staying in this place to, uh, recover from the trauma of being robbed at gunpoint.

We drove to an all-inclusive resort in a little town called Ixtapa which is basically a fortress Beach town. It's like Fort Lauderdale something super secure. look a falcon left beautiful. Stayed in a hotel on the beach with a lot of families and a little water park for the kids.

X Rode the water slide 84 times in one day which took him four hours and we booked an Airbnb in a little Paradise down the road and when friends ask me how was Mexico I say it was perfect and I mean it. It's almost like the danger is the price of admission. It's like part of what makes Mexico so wonderful is that you've got to be a little bit. Brave There's a there's a bravery requirement and brave people are generally fun.

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13 thoughts on “10 ingredients for non-miserable vacations”
  1. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars erik ch says:

    How was the drive to Lazaro Cardenas? My family lives nearby but I get skeptical about going.

  2. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars leeaf7 says:

    Really people are aware of many tips you are trying to give out Van, but our lives are revolving around children's school schedule. Sure we have a few choosing to have kids miss few days of school for meaningful vacations but the vast majority don't. My advice to young couples is that try to go vacationing while your kids are still too young to attend school (pre-k).

  3. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Chuy says:

    My family is from Mexico, I was born here in California. We used to drive as a whole family (multiple families in different cars) to my parents home town in Guanajuato atleast once a year. 2015 was the last time we stopped driving there. We go by plane now always. It’s gotten too dangerous to drive and we have heard many stories of being pulled over by armed non government officials. Even government officials are scary and sketchy to deal with. So I salute you for taking that risk to visit that beautiful country. But for anyone going driving, please do your due diligence before going

  4. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars T sprinkles says:

    thankyou

  5. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars yeildme911 says:

    So good

  6. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Paulo Fontora Music says:

    I never felt miserable flying on coach, 2 weeks for vacations seem to be the perfect number where I away from everything yet I don’t disconnect for too long from work and clients, there are safe and “magical” places too, lots can be done with “just” $3-5k…I don’t know, loved the video but it’s very specific to one persons preferences. Happy you gad a great time tho!

  7. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Cory Checketts says:

    Glad to hear you made it out of the robbery OK. I lived in Mexico City for a couple of years and the only times I ever had an issue was when I left the big city and went to smaller towns. It's almost impossible not to stand out as an American in those small towns. People definitely take notice and you have to be extremely vigilant. But the worst thing I ever lost was some change and a camera. Nothing serious.

  8. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Alexander 🎮 gilbster says:

    Sounds like fun, but I don't think my 99 Nissan Altima would make it to Mexico and back. Coach is fine for me.
    Plus, I really enjoy traveling to cities with good public transportation, and just riding around that way. I feel like then you can actually get to know the city and not just drive through it.

  9. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Ryan Fitzgerald says:

    I would pay $50, or whatever you deem reasonable, for an itinerary.

  10. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars IRLtrolls says:

    Stopped watching when you said you spent 30k on a 4 month trip. You're out of touch with the common man and have no advice worth giving. "Rich guy problems" doesn't even scratch the surface.

  11. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Faul Durand says:

    Much love and respect. Leaving for a trip this afternoon and am excited to try integrating a few of your ingredients.

  12. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Prol0l says:

    i have 35 days paid vacation. just saying. Nordics have it good

  13. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Patrick Conlon says:

    Yeah I too loved Ixtapa, so luxurious, and close to zihuatanejo where they the last scene of the Shawshank redemption is located…..love it, great story, you're a brave man.

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